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If you imagine your ‘relationship’ with Mr Unavailables and assclowns like this: Imagine that your capacity to love is at, let’s say 70%.
Depending on what flavour of guy you’re messing with out of these two, let’s say his capacity is 20%.
You have become very good at normalising bad behaviour.Have you found yourself looking back of your relationship and feeling more than a bit galled and bewildered by the type of relationship and behaviour that you have accepted? I was speaking with a reader earlier who has been through exactly this – you know it doesn’t feel good. You know there is something more than a little jacked up about what you have experienced and yet… It’s the rationalising, the ignoring, the denying, the ability to see gold where there is rusty copper, the confusion, the listening to the words rather than looking at the actions.More importantly, you no longer know what is ‘normal’ anymore.It's easy and free, and as you gain the confidence you can follow it up with a message. Our dedicated, award-winning support team are only a quick email away should you need help.We also have loads of advice covering everything from dating, relationships and faith by top Christian writers on our Christian dating blog.